Our thoughts create our reality, the results we have with everything. This includes our bodies. When something isn’t working for us, it’s often not just one thing going on, there can be many different underlying causes or reasons for the problem or limitation to exist. And it’s not the same for everyone. What’s going on for one person can be totally different than what’s going on for someone else. It’s not black and white or linear, it’s never just this equals that.
Trying to think ourselves out of these situations doesn’t work. If our mind had the answers to what was going on, it would have already figured it out and gotten us out of these messes. But, these messes aren’t figure-out-able. Have you ever noticed?
It can be a decision we’ve made, or a fixed point of view we’ve taken on as though that’s just the way it is or has to be. For us to have created it in the first place, at some point it had value for us, but most likely is no longer valuable, or it wouldn’t be creating a problem.
It may be something we bought as ours when it wasn’t. We weren’t aware of the fact that it wasn’t ours when we bought it, or we never would have bought it in the first place. So now we are all walking around with so much shit we’ve bought as ours that isn’t.
Now here’s the kicker, we can’t change something that’s not ours. Is it no wonder it's sticking us?
We often buy things as real and true when they aren’t. We’ve been told many things, over many lifetimes, and every time we’ve aligned and agreed with something, or resisted and reacted to something, we’ve bought it as real and true, even if it wasn't true for us; even if it was a lie.
The thing about a lie is, it will always stick you. So now we have all these lies that we’ve bought as real and true, and they too are sticking us! Now as daunting as this can sound, please don’t go into despair or think it’s hopeless.
Anything is changeable. And change can be much easier than you have ever imagined. You just have to have the willingness to make the change, and have tools that will actually work to get you where you want to go.
That is where I come in. For those who are ready to go one the journey, I have the map and the navigation tools to get you where you’d like to go. So the beauty of that is you don’t have to go it alone unless you choose to.
We create everything, the good, the bad and the ugly. The sooner we claim, own and acknowledge this, the sooner we can begin to create what we actually desire. But first, we have to clear the shit – the limitations, the judgments, the lies, and the fixed points of view.
I am so grateful that after searching for many years, I have found some effective tools along the way; tools that have assisted me to clear away a bunch of the shit and make way for new possibilities. And, it’s not an end point; I use the tools daily and I continue to ask for more.
For those who would like some assistance and choose to work together, I will be giving you tools along the way; tools for you to explore, tools for you to play with, and you can begin to fill your toolbox with tools that actually work for you. And you will have them the rest of this lifetime, and beyond.
Are you ready to take the journey? If you are close enough for an in-person session, I'd recommend starting with a Transformation Bundle Session which is a combination of Access Bars and Verbal Processing Facilitation.
If you are too far to join me in-person a Verbal Processing Facilitation Session can be done by phone or online via video conference anywhere in the world. Verbal Processing Facilitation goes far beyond traditional coaching, counseling or therapy to give you lasting results more quickly and easily than traditional methods.
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